With a new goal in mind, I’ve had to reluctantly decide to refrain from writing new blog posts, for the immediate future. To keep my blog active I am instead going to re-run my existing posts.
I’ve had to come to this decision so I can dedicate time to my writing project.
I am in the process of compiling my Bullying & Beyond posts into a book. To give adequate time to this project I have to be proactive in managing my health (due to the challenges of living with CFS/Fibromyalgia, as anyone living with a chronic illness will understand).
I’ve really appreciated your constant company while I shared my Bullying & Beyond posts.
Your friendship, encouraging comments and shared experiences have played a huge role in helping me overcome the pain of supporting our children through school bullying and has enabled me to reclaim my voice and write about our experience. I am so grateful to all of you for this gift!
If you would like to share any information about supports available in your area or if you would like to research any bullying prevention and intervention resources that are relevant to where you live I would be delighted to hear from you and look forward to your participation.
I hope you will continue to keep me company and continue to share your thoughts with me. I will of course reply to any comments received!
Le grà,
Mindfully Marie xx
Feb, 2020.
This was my first post in my Bullying & Beyond series…Bullying & Beyond…Take Heart!
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February 28, 2020 at 8:54 pm
Wow! Sounds very exciting! I wish you the best!💜
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February 28, 2020 at 9:41 pm
Thank you so much Kim, it will come about when the time is right! Thanks for your constant company. X
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February 28, 2020 at 9:21 pm
absolutely perfect! Well done, hope people take up the invite … I will as time permits 🙂
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February 28, 2020 at 10:09 pm
Thank you so much Kate! I really hope so too, people have so much lived experience and supportive information to share! Xx
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February 28, 2020 at 11:23 pm
exactly and to know that it may help others is so important … no point in keeping real help private 🙂
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February 28, 2020 at 11:51 pm
True Kate! Appreciated!! Xx
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February 28, 2020 at 9:38 pm
so very happy for you!!!!
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February 28, 2020 at 10:10 pm
Thank you so much Wendi, I really appreciate your good wishes! Xx
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February 28, 2020 at 11:29 pm
you are very welcome. I am cheering you on. 🙂
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February 28, 2020 at 11:52 pm
Soaking up every bit of it Wendi for the busy time ahead! Xx
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February 29, 2020 at 1:03 am
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February 28, 2020 at 9:59 pm
Hi Marie, good on you for having the passion and commitment to compile a book. What an incredibly worthwhile project. I wish you well xx
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February 28, 2020 at 10:15 pm
Thank you so much Miriam. I am so grateful for your kind wishes! B&B posts started out as just a wish to share small insights in the hopes of easing the pain for another parent or child and I never even considered a book! But time changes everything and small goals grow into slightly bigger ones! Xx
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February 28, 2020 at 10:18 pm
Yes they do and I think what you’re doing is so great.
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February 28, 2020 at 10:22 pm
You lightt my heart and remind me that this is the right path! Thank you Miriam. Keep sharing your amazing adventures. X
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February 28, 2020 at 10:25 pm
Yes, it is your path Marie, just as I know I’m on the right path. xx
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February 28, 2020 at 10:03 pm
Sounds like a very worthy endeavor. Finishing an important book like that understandably doesn’t leave much time for blogging. Good luck with your book. 🙂
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February 28, 2020 at 10:20 pm
Thank you so much, for reading and for sharing your encouraging message! My goal and hope is that it will be of support to parents who struggle with the pain of bullying. Time is limited but moreso when it is impacted by fatigue, so something has to be sidelined for the present! Xx
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February 29, 2020 at 12:45 am
You’re most welcome. I get that about the fatigue. Often that’s my biggest battle. Energy to be portioned out for only the most important activities.
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February 29, 2020 at 8:55 am
Isn’t it just so affirming when people really understand! Thank you for your empathy and wise quote “Energy to be portioned out for only the most important activities. I’m sorry to learn of your similar struggle and wish you comfort in knowing the lesson you’ve obviously learned so well is now of comfort to me! Have a lovely weekend. Xx
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February 29, 2020 at 1:57 pm
Yes knowing you’re not alone can make all the difference 😊
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February 29, 2020 at 7:08 am
Sounds good, Marie and all the very best. Our support and motivation is always there with you. Keep it going.
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February 29, 2020 at 9:07 am
Thank you so much Kamal! I’m waking up this morning to so much support and encouragement. I feel a huge sense of gratitude for the wonderful community I’m part of and all the friendly voices that share their warmth and love so freely with me! Xx
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February 29, 2020 at 10:00 am
You are welcome, Marie and we as a community are always there to support each other and spread warmth and love everywhere we go. Much love and light to you.🙏🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊😊
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February 29, 2020 at 8:02 pm
Good luck with your book! And no worries, we’ll enjoy reading your older posts!
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February 29, 2020 at 9:43 pm
Thank you so much Ann for your kind wishes and reassurance that you’ll still get something from my reposts. Keep sharing any thoughts or comments with me, they often spark a new awareness!
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March 1, 2020 at 9:00 am
Perhaps not any easy decision to make but it makes sense, you need to do what’s best for you so you can focus your efforts as needed. I take my hat off to you for all the blogging you’ve done up to this point, let alone writing a book! I’ve often thought of a book myself, but I’ve done nothing but watch as other bloggers put pen to paper (or fingers to keys) and write their own books. But here you are, you’re doing it.. wishing you all the very best with the book, Marie, I think it’s a wonderful thing to do!
As for resources or interventions, I’m not too sure but in the UK there are things like Samaritans as a free phone number you can call. There are a few websites with advice and guidance, too – https://youngminds.org.uk/find-help/feelings-and-symptoms/bullying/
https://www.bullying.co.uk/
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/what-is-child-abuse/types-of-abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying/
https://www.nationalbullyinghelpline.co.uk/
Caz xx
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March 1, 2020 at 6:33 pm
Caz thank you for your sincere message. You’ve been a constant supporter, offering me lots of encouragement along the way! You are a dedicated blogger, always committing time and attention to your thoughtful and insightful posts and responding to posts with wonderful comments. If anybody should be compiling a book it should be you. You have oodles of excellent posts, one more professional than the next. Have you approached any newspapers or magazines with a view to running a column or articles? I assume you have a qualification in journalism or similar from the quality of your work.
Thank you sooooo much sharing supports available in your area. You are my first contributor! I really appreciate it! I hope you are as well as is possible! Le grà, Marie xx
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March 1, 2020 at 2:20 pm
Thank you for sharing!!.. all the best with your new adventure and book, I know you will do well!!.. WordPress is just part of your life, you cannot ignore the rest and concentrate on just one part…. 🙂
Until we meet again…
May flowers always line your path
and sunshine light your way,
May songbirds serenade your
every step along the way,
May a rainbow run beside you
in a sky that’s always blue,
And may happiness fill your heart
each day your whole life through.
May the sun shine all day long
Everything go right, nothing go wrong
May those you love bring love back to you
And may all the wishes you wish come true
(Irish Saying)
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March 1, 2020 at 6:36 pm
Dutch its so lovely that you always share an Irish saying which I love because being Irish I never think to use them myself! I really love and appreciate your faith in my ability to get this done! Thanks for your regular visits and encouragement! Wishing you well! Le grà, Marie
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March 1, 2020 at 7:04 pm
All the best to you in your new writing project Marie! We’ll be here waiting and hopefully reading your new project when you’re ready to show it!
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March 1, 2020 at 7:22 pm
Thank you so much Janie for your encouraging words, it’s got quite a way to go yet but I’m learning to take it one step at a time!! Have a peacefilled week! Xx
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March 2, 2020 at 11:31 pm
You too dear Marie! xx
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March 1, 2020 at 10:02 pm
I SO encourage to write that book, Marie. I totally understand how we can only do a certain amount of things and not compromise ourselves. Good for you making a very difficult decision! Please let me know when you publish ….. I wish you only the very very best! (((HUGS)))!! xo
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March 2, 2020 at 12:20 am
Thank you so so much Amy for your encouragement, it really means a lot to me! I’m slowly getting better at making difficult decisions! Wish I had that skill when my children were being bullied!! Don’t worry, there will be firework or two and a gentle fanfare when I reach my goal!!
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March 1, 2020 at 11:53 pm
Wow…congratulations Marie on your upcoming projeft and take your time along with taking care of your health.
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March 2, 2020 at 12:23 am
Thanks Mich for your affirming comment and kind advice! I will try to pace & prioritise as best I can! I’ll be looking forward to your company and interesting posts!
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March 2, 2020 at 12:42 am
We will be waiting for your book Marie as it will be a great help
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March 2, 2020 at 5:28 am
Thanks Mitch, I’ll think of that if I meet any obstacles!
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March 6, 2020 at 1:14 pm
I’d like to add my own very best wishes to the chorus above! xx
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March 6, 2020 at 8:39 pm
Thank you Darren, you’re a much appreciated supporter, right from the start!
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