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Hi... failte (Irish for welcome! and pronounced fall-thhha).
I'm a newbie to blogging, here just over a year, but what a great year it has been!
I've turned the corner to 50 recently and two things become more relevant...time and experiences!
Material possessions are less important! Using time wisely and truly experiencing each day holds a new significance for me!
If you wish..., a little of the back story...
I''m blessed to be married to a kind and loving man for 28 years, we have two children now 19 and 21.
As I approached 40 and searching for something more, whilst holding down my then part-time legal secretarial work, I trained as a voluntary adult literacy tutor, with the hope of helping adults improve their literacy skills and have a second, and better experience of learning!
However, little did I think that wanting to help others improve their lives would see my own life improve beyond measure also!
You see for years I found it difficult to know what to do as I watched our two children suffer at the hands of bullies. Their struggle began to change when I returned to education! Through education I slowly gained valuable knowledge, I grew in confidence and self-esteme and it had a ripple effect!
By 2014, aged 47 I had completed a Higher Certificate in Literacy Development and a B.A. in Adult Education. I love my work as an adult educator, particularly when adults trust me enough to let down their defences and 'let me in'. Then I can help them by getting to know what makes them 'tic' and what 'lights their fire!'.
As an added bonus along the way I've realised that I also have a love of writing and that writing is cathartic (providing psychological relief through written expression of built up emotions), both for my students and myself. This blog enables me to pursue that new-found interest and I've really enjoying reading your blogs, sharing comments, getting to know so many people and gaining new perspectives. I also like to share any little 'gems' of learning I've gathered along the way!
Thanks for sharing your stories and for helping me realise that it is all possible...and that together we write a truly better story!
Much love,
Marie x
November 9, 2018 at 8:26 am
Thank you, much appreciated 🙏🏽
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November 9, 2018 at 10:22 am
My pleasure entirely!
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November 9, 2018 at 9:29 am
yes a lovely idea … sadly many are prompted to write such a letter when they die leaving young children .. great share!
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November 9, 2018 at 10:25 am
That is a true and sad fact, all the more reason to do this when terminal illness is not part of the equation.
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November 9, 2018 at 7:46 pm
exactly, something to be cherished and shared together over the years 🙂
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November 9, 2018 at 12:13 pm
Overwhelmed.
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November 9, 2018 at 1:14 pm
Beautiful Marie xx
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November 9, 2018 at 1:30 pm
Thank you for sharing!… another story about the power of love… 🙂
“Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion that each include the other, each is enriched by the other.” Felix Adler
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November 9, 2018 at 8:50 pm
Thank you too Dutch for reading and sharing your thoughts!
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November 9, 2018 at 2:12 pm
Thanks for sharing this Marie. That letter will be something Kunal will treasure forever, I’m sure. It’s interesting – I was just thinking of writing my son a letter the other day. Now seeing this, it almost seems like a confirmation that I should do it. Maybe I’ll do that for Christmas…. Hope you’re doing well sweet friend! Hugs!
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November 9, 2018 at 9:23 pm
Hi Terri, I’m glad this spoke to you! I think it would be a lovely thing to do for your own son. Thanks for asking Terri, I’m doing well, managing part-time work and paying lots of attention to pacing! I hope you are well too. Xx
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November 9, 2018 at 5:56 pm
Wow, that really was a beautiful letter/post, I agree that the world could be such a kinder, more compassionate place if parents and children expressed their feelings like this more, to show such pride and love. xx
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November 9, 2018 at 9:28 pm
I agree Caz, half the problems in childhood and adolescence could be solved if people expressed their love and affection. Xx
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November 20, 2018 at 1:51 am
I love this! Beautiful letter. And yes, I did wrote two letters to my son and he is due to receive another letter now that he is almost an adult. Thanks for reminding me.
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November 20, 2018 at 1:43 pm
What a lovely idea and wonderful keepsake!
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