via Daily Prompt: Mentor

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Killarney National Park…a peaceful place to reflect on your mentoring skills.

 

A mentor is someone who educates or offers support and advice and is usually an older person.

Something special happens when you find a good mentor – they don’t just spot your errors and failings and tell you how to improve…

No, a good mentor knows that your thoughts, behaviour, work, class exercise or assignment is your best effort at this moment in time.  But they know how to build upon those foundations and help you reach your full potential.

A good mentor has a generous spirit and they enjoy pointing out all the things you are doing right. Their aim is to help you acknowledge your strengths and learn to believe in yourself. They know that along the way you just forgot how to trust in yourself.

When the time is right an experienced mentor knows it’s time to step back.  They don’t want you to become dependent on their support.  They don’t need your dependency to buffer their self-esteem… No, the very opposite is the case, they enjoy letting you take the driving seat.  They know their job is done!  They believe in your ability and can see you are ready to step confidently outside your comfort zone and achieve your full potential!

Isn’t parenting, being an employee or a colleague, being a sister, being a cousin, being a friend…being alive and just living your day, just amazing…Isn’t it the best mentor and look at what it can teach you!

Much love,

Marie xx

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