Recently I decided to have a technology free day…well, I tried to… disconnect.
I stayed technology free up to 6pm and then my resolve dissolved!!
I’m going to try and disconnect again and I would like to invite you to join me. By taking time away from technology, I would like to create… Disconnect-Reconnect Sunday…
I would like to remove the noise. Remove the distractions…
creating space to connect; with self, with family, with now, with presence, with real-time, with creativity, with nature.
Hi... failte (Irish for welcome! and pronounced fall-thhha).
I'm a newbie to blogging, here just over a year, but what a great year it has been!
I've turned the corner to 50 recently and two things become more relevant...time and experiences!
Material possessions are less important! Using time wisely and truly experiencing each day holds a new significance for me!
If you wish..., a little of the back story...
I''m blessed to be married to a kind and loving man for 28 years, we have two children now 19 and 21.
As I approached 40 and searching for something more, whilst holding down my then part-time legal secretarial work, I trained as a voluntary adult literacy tutor, with the hope of helping adults improve their literacy skills and have a second, and better experience of learning!
However, little did I think that wanting to help others improve their lives would see my own life improve beyond measure also!
You see for years I found it difficult to know what to do as I watched our two children suffer at the hands of bullies. Their struggle began to change when I returned to education! Through education I slowly gained valuable knowledge, I grew in confidence and self-esteme and it had a ripple effect!
By 2014, aged 47 I had completed a Higher Certificate in Literacy Development and a B.A. in Adult Education. I love my work as an adult educator, particularly when adults trust me enough to let down their defences and 'let me in'. Then I can help them by getting to know what makes them 'tic' and what 'lights their fire!'.
As an added bonus along the way I've realised that I also have a love of writing and that writing is cathartic (providing psychological relief through written expression of built up emotions), both for my students and myself. This blog enables me to pursue that new-found interest and I've really enjoying reading your blogs, sharing comments, getting to know so many people and gaining new perspectives. I also like to share any little 'gems' of learning I've gathered along the way!
Thanks for sharing your stories and for helping me realise that it is all possible...and that together we write a truly better story!
Much love,
Marie x
i disconnect from my computer from time to time, but the problem is my cell phone. If I don’t carry that, then I might miss a call from a family member who needs me…particularly my elderly mother. But I think it is a wonderful idea to disconnect totally from time to time.
Hi Ann thanks for reading and I’m glad it resonates with you. I think it’s ok to use a phone, as a phone, because of elderly parents but maybe the aim is not to use it for social media. Enjoy the disconnect time!
That’s a wonderful idea. Especially on sundays, it is usually my church day, so that may be easier. Usually I pick up my phone around 2pm. I will TRY to extend that time
Thank you for reading and responding, I found it easier on my second attempt and am glad to have tried again. It’s a habit I’m going to keep working on! Let me know how you get on! Best wishes.
I took a break at 500 followers. I might take another at 1,000. I can’t go all in though because as a prison wife I treasure every moment I get to hear my husband’s voice..so the cell is always on… tempting me to my blog. 😉
Thank you for your response and visit! I think your suggestion of breaks at major milestones is a great one! I have decided to differenciate between social media and work related internet use as I always have class prep that needs doing! It’s important for you to keep all contact with your husband and moreso that he knows he can make contact with you at anytime but maybe you can schedule time away from your blog. Best wishes.
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March 15, 2018 at 11:16 am
I have decide the same. After a year of blogging daily, I have given my self permission to truly practice the art of “Being Still” on the weekend!💚
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March 15, 2018 at 3:07 pm
Glad to hear you feel the same! Enjoy! Please share any new experiences or insights Roda. X
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March 15, 2018 at 7:08 pm
i disconnect from my computer from time to time, but the problem is my cell phone. If I don’t carry that, then I might miss a call from a family member who needs me…particularly my elderly mother. But I think it is a wonderful idea to disconnect totally from time to time.
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March 15, 2018 at 10:48 pm
Hi Ann thanks for reading and I’m glad it resonates with you. I think it’s ok to use a phone, as a phone, because of elderly parents but maybe the aim is not to use it for social media. Enjoy the disconnect time!
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March 18, 2018 at 4:29 pm
I like the idea. I will be disconnected for about a month soon enough.
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March 19, 2018 at 7:59 am
Thank you I’m glad to hear that! Enjoy your disconnected time and maybe consider sharing what you learn as a result!
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March 19, 2018 at 6:13 pm
I’ll sure try. Stay awesome
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March 21, 2018 at 2:04 am
That’s a wonderful idea. Especially on sundays, it is usually my church day, so that may be easier. Usually I pick up my phone around 2pm. I will TRY to extend that time
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March 22, 2018 at 3:00 pm
Thank you for reading and responding, I found it easier on my second attempt and am glad to have tried again. It’s a habit I’m going to keep working on! Let me know how you get on! Best wishes.
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March 21, 2018 at 8:00 pm
I took a break at 500 followers. I might take another at 1,000. I can’t go all in though because as a prison wife I treasure every moment I get to hear my husband’s voice..so the cell is always on… tempting me to my blog. 😉
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March 22, 2018 at 3:07 pm
Thank you for your response and visit! I think your suggestion of breaks at major milestones is a great one! I have decided to differenciate between social media and work related internet use as I always have class prep that needs doing! It’s important for you to keep all contact with your husband and moreso that he knows he can make contact with you at anytime but maybe you can schedule time away from your blog. Best wishes.
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